Thursday, 17 August 2017
How does one treat adversity? how does one address failure? in our day and age, when negative instances can have a major impact on our lives, we need to look for ways to handle these, survive, move on and eventually thrive.
In Option B, Sandberg looks into a topic that is not easily discussed and is best kept untouched. Taking inspiration from a major incident in her own life, the sudden death of her husband, she consults with Grant and other professionals and seeks to find ways to successfully get out of a black hole that can easily absorb anyone affected.
Monday, 19 December 2016
Your second life begins when you understand that you only have one (Ta deuxieme vie commence quand tu comprends que tu n'en as qu'une) - Raphaëlle Giordano
A feel-good book to begin with, but not much otherwise. That was my reasoning for purchasing Ta deuxième vie commence quand tu comprends que tu n'en as qu'une, after a colleague recommended this for my French book search (I make it a point to read books in languages other than English, so as not to lose touch...)
This would then be my go-to book for travelling, for evenings when I'm dead tired, in general for occasions when I don't need to think hard about the subject at hand.
What a surprise, then, when I realised that underneath the "light" packaging, this book actually has a lot of substance. I could identify with the main person of this story: I'm at the exact same point in life, I'm going through very similar thoughts, and I get the same type of reactions when I express my worries.
Tuesday, 6 December 2016
This is one of the books that grabbed my attention from the title: The Rosie Project, by Graeme Simsion, had all the ingredients that would make me buy the book in an instant: a chick-lit from a man's perspective. How refreshing and delightful...
Don, a genetics professor, is exactly the cliché of a nerdy scientist. He avoids human contact and he meticulously analyses and plans every aspect of his life. When he's informed that he's good husband material, he jumps into this adventure - after all, according to statistics, there is someone for everyone - ergo, someone for him too. But this is not a princess charming story - no, Don needs to spell out exactly what this someone will be, and he (again, obviously) starts with his Wife Project!
Thursday, 10 November 2016
As I get older, I find myself revisiting my younger years more and more often. Did I lead the life I intended? have my ideas, my beliefs, my opinions changed? How has my outlook on life evolved over the years? Do I get stubborn as I get older? Is life still worthwhile?
Do not worry, dear reader - we all go through such phases in our lives. We just need to be reminded of the simple pleasures in life to keep our spirit up ...
In A Man called Ove, Backman describes an excellent case in point: Ove, an - ahem - older man, who cannot deal with his wife's passing. He can no longer fit in with society's new sets of rules, he can no longer understand how people function... Enter a drastic solution: he will kill himself.
This is a tragic decision and should not be treated lightly. And yet, when he fails - miserably - more than once to go through with it, it is with a little smile that I react. The combination of comedy and tragedy, as well as the true facts about modern life (indeed, they don't make ropes as sturdy as in the past), ensure that this book is not a gloomy account of a lonely life, but rather an account of how such a "misfit" can actually fit in with the rest of society.
The link: Parvaneh, an Iranian neighbour - with all the clichés that apply to a "southern" woman: loud, persistent, family-oriented, making food for everyone (I personally know such an Iranian woman, and I can see where the inspiration comes from...). Parvaneh enters Ove's life like a compactor and there's no escape. (I believe she's realised what Ove was trying to do from the very beginning, which makes her get involved even a bit more). She feeds him, she makes him take on a stray cat, she gets him to drive her to the hospital, where he's also left to care for her daughters... There is no end to all the intrusion and Ove cannot escape!
Slowly, we see a transformation in Ove: from a truly grumpy old man, he slowly agrees to "teach" the new generation how things are done (he's still of a generation of Jack of all trades - something that even I see is missing from the younger generation, and I'm supposed to be only middle-aged). But not only that: as many real-life examples show, the older generation can still contribute and enhance the lives of the young ones. There is enough distance to look at things in a calmer manner (the relationship of parents-children will almost always be problematic, whereas that of grandparents and children is potentially beneficial for both). And so Ove becomes a surrogate grandfather to Parvaneh's daughters, while he proves he's modern enough to accept and put up a homosexual guy when he's thrown out of his parents' house. He becomes an active member of his little community. And the community loves him back.
The book is written in an easy-going style, which is slightly nostalgic. It brought back memories of elderly people around me who, like Ove, try to find their place in the world and cannot seem to succeed. If you want to read a book that will restore your faith in humanity, this book is one very good choice....
For the visual interpretation of this book, I also watched the film "A man called Ove". A very good adaptation, it perfectly complemented the reading!
Thursday, 3 November 2016
I just love my book club. The fact that each time the host/ess chooses a book, which we all then read and discuss, gives me the opportunity to get a taste of new genres, authors and countries that I may otherwise not have experienced.
So when our Iranian hostess informed us of the Book of Rustem, and I got to see the beautiful illustrations, I knew I was in for a treat: a sort of fairy-tale, set in beautiful Persia.
The book reads very comfortably - it helps that I've read the Bible, because the style is comparable. Continuous repetitions and use of the superlative set the scene and provide the background for the reading experience.
The main character is Rustem and his adventures - but before that, we get a glimpse of his predecessors, who are implicated in a repetitive pattern of family feuds, heroic fights, plenty of courage shown, as is the quest to avenge for any wrong-doing...